11.7.08
House Concerts & Marion LoGuidice
Last night I went to a house concert. Maybe you've heard of these, attended one or even hosted one. It is what it sounds like - someone opens their home - in this case a beautiful open loft in SoHo-for people to come listen to a singer. The singer stands there just in front of you with her guitarist. She's belting out these beautiful songs and you are sitting, drinking wine, nibbling on cheese and being carried away by the amazing intimacy of it all. And, in this particular case, we were even able to bring our boy (dear daughter was on a sleep over) and there were plenty of kids - who all played nicely in the next room while the grown-ups had a baby sitter-free night out. So - the house concert thing - totally cool.
But my real recommendation is for this amazing singer: Marion LoGuidice. She's a forty-something mom who sings with a vision and a connection to all things motherhood and woman-centric. The first time I saw her - at Joe's Pub three years ago I was blown away. I felt like she was speaking to me, all the things I was going through as a mom - the guilt - the anxiety - the challenge of trying to be the perfect person to raise my angels and still, somewhere in there, find myself. It was a really moving experience for me. Of course, we bought the CD - Motherwheel - and even my husband loves her - but he's a fan of Dido and Sarah MacLachlan, too, so weigh your hubby's taste first. Nonetheless, Marion's amazing. She has two CDs, now and she's on iTunes. Check out "Mr. Brown" - a heartbreaker and "Every Woman Alive". When you're feeling lost and misunderstood, put Marion on - she'll make you feel like at least someone gets you.JC
Marion Loguidice: Press
8/16/08
"Your Children Are So Well-Behaved"
I never know exactly what to think when someone says that to me. It happened just the other night. We went to a house concert in Chelsea. One of our favorite singers - Marion LoGuidice - was performing and we seldom miss a chance to see her. She totally speaks to women like those of us who blog here - she sings about motherhood and old friendships and trying to stake a claim for yourself as a woman in this world. She's so amazing, so inspirational. Check her music out here.
Anyway, we go to this house concert which is what it sounds like - someone opens their home - in this case a beautiful new loft space with dark wood floors and the sort of white leather furniture only an empty-nested parent can risk - and hosts an intimate gathering - maybe thirty-five of us for wine, snacks and song. It's really a cool way to spend an evening and generally there are some kids in attendance.
At this particular gathering, my kids were the youngest but not by a lot and we came in a little late. The kids settled on the floor between the sofas and generally listened with attention and courtesy - nothing less than I expected. I explained the situation to them before we went in, they got it, they behaved accordingly. I was proud of them, but really I hadn't expected anything different - they are nine and seven - they can behave at a mostly adult gathering.
When the music ended the 40-something woman sitting nearest my kids came immediately over to me and said "Your kids were so well behaved." I said "Thank you." It really is a great compliment whenever anyone says it. But she went on - "No, really, they were so great." "Thanks, that's so nice of you to say." Then she stood there a moment and I felt like I got what she was really saying. What she really meant is when you walked in with those little kids I was thinking 'why on earth would you bring children to this party'?!
But then my kids, doing their part for all kids everywhere surprised her by behaving! Bravo to them!
But it made me wonder what it is about kids that makes some adults think the worst - as if they themselves were not kids once - as if these little people who are someday going to be looking after our old, decrepit butts aren't people, too? It drives me a little nuts. Sure, they are small, they are sometimes ill-mannered but they are people, too, little and young though they are. Show me a grown-up who hasn't behaved badly at one time or another - a little too much to drink, a little too incensed by a slight - we all could act better from time to time.
And not every kid causes a problem. Sure, some kids do behave badly, could stand a severe lesson in manners but I'd venture to say those kids are the exception, not the rule. For the most part kids want to please the grown-ups around them as long as those grown-ups are willing to give them a chance to do it.
So while I will graciously accept the compliment you've given me, I will also accept it for the thousands of other kids who are sometimes frowned upon just for being kids in a grown-up world. They are people, too.
Original post to NYC Moms Blog. Jessica Ciosek is a freelance writer, mom and blogger living in NYC.
The Austin Chronicle 11/8/08
"Those unable to resist the call of Loudon Wainwright’s good-humored intellectual folk, especially on his latest, Recovery, should be prepared for seduction by opening act Marion LoGuidice. Her latest CD, God’s House, is by turns lulling and startling, the New York-based artist’s spiritually intuitive and deeply passionate songs embraced of late by KGSR. Sometimes the pairing of two acts on a bill seems arbitrary. Here, it’s divine. "
The Austin American Statesman 8/20/08
"Several of the songs on "God's House," the new CD by New York singer Marion LoGuidice, should have about 10 seconds of dead air before the next track to let the listener clear his or her head from the riveting emotional ride they've just been on. The apology anthem "Sorry" and the swirling duet with Cyndi Lauper on "Mary" together pack more intense vulnerability and simmering empowerment than a Tori Amos boxed set.”
Sway Music
A remarkable thing happened after Marion LoGuidice finished her set at Joe’s Pub in New York City recently and left with her band through that odd little dwarf-size partition they have behind the stage. Now, no way was the audience going to get an encore, as there was another set by another act to follow and these folks were about to get whisked out of Joe’s Pub with a broom. But there arose this strange sound, a kind of keening, whistling noise, that was both appreciative of the music that had just been played and devastated there was going to be no more. Imagine a roomful of connoisseurs savoring fine wine at the same time a crowd of kids is being told they will have to give their ice cream cones back. That’s kind of what it sounded like. It was an evocative and unusual sound, and it didn’t stop after the house lights came up. It didn’t stop until band members reappeared on the stage to collect their instruments, one giving the “cut” signal with a finger across his neck to indicate the music was over for the night.
LoGuidice’s sold-out concert (you pronounce it Low-JUDAS) was unusual as well. LoGuidice’s set was a freeform mix of styles that ranges from rather close to mainstream pop to something that swings out there far enough to elicit those appreciative whistles and grief-like keening. As I watched her swing back and forth in front of the microphone, using her body movement to sling her songs out into a highly-receptive crowd, I thought of a term to describe her style: sway music. It is hypnotic, beguiling, fey, incantatory stuff.
I’ve been beguiled by sway music before. My late friend Scott Appel, always a good tout of great music and with a whole record store of stuff to listen to and screen for you, told me about twenty years that I ought to be listening to a new record by Kate Bush called “Hounds of Love.” Kate Bush? I said. Isn’t she that pinup English singer whose pop-pap records’ best features were the cover photos?
I was right that Kate Bush always looked good on her album covers, but wrong in the rest of my estimation. Her best stuff was wonderfully out there, Cathy singing to Heathcliff and songs suddenly overwhelmed by marching bands, songs sung in an English that only generally resembles the one most people speak and depicting fey worlds and situations the result of some strange kind of spell-making that’s literally breathtaking. You are afraid that your least breath might cause it to dissolve. Hounds of Love has its own Juliet-of-the-Spirits logic, and Bush sustains it wonderfully through the whole of the record.
Marion LoGuidice is a lot more grounded in the real world than the cultified Ms. Bush is, but like her she uses unusual songforms and situations from her own mythology. So to hear her sing a duet with her friend Sheri Miller in which Marion is Christ and Miller Mary Magdalene, and adding in the fact that her name rhymes with Judas, doesn’t seem at all out of the ordinary. (I joked to both of them later that Mary Magdalene hasn’t had a hit since “I Don’t Know How to Love Him,” so it may be time for her to hit big again!)
LoGuidice’s backstory is pretty unusual, too. She has come to songwriting and performing later on, after marriage and childbirth, and quickly created not a cult, but a dedicated following that regularly sells out Joe’s Pub when the NYC-based performer plays there. Her 2005 indie CD, Mother Wheel (www.marionsmusic.com) has sold briskly and another one is due this year. Most of the songs done at Joe’s Pub that night are from her forthcoming CD. Ones that I made note of include “Laurie,” “Summer Turns to Fall,” and “Please.”
Her songs can be quite accessible pop that suddenly take left turns into something more adventurous, musical woods where you’re not quite sure if what’s coming is magical or Grimm-dark. LoGuidice is also not afraid to break out of her comfort zone and sing in her not-most-pretty voice.
Mother Wheel is a very fine record, adventurous, urgent and passionately delivered by LoGuidice and guitarists Larry Saltzman and Ira Siegel, bassist Tony Conniff, keyboardist Chris Palmiero and vocalists Catherine Russell, Tabitha Fair and Diane Garisto. Tunes like “Please,” “Mother Wheel” and “Mountains” announce a formidable talent excavated from the quotidian burdens of daily life.
But I keep coming back to her audience that night at Joe’s Pub. Many of them were women with young children in tow. That made me think that part of LoGuidice’s appeal is an appreciation by people in the same position, of the tremendous effort it sometimes takes to bring an artistic talent out. I’m thinking now of the late Tillie Olsen, whose decades-long “silences” between books were often talked about in literary circles. In her obituary, it turned out those silences were not due to dissolution, mental illness or artsy woolgathering, but to the all-consuming demands on her time from her status as a working-class wife and mother.
Another reason for Marion LoGuidice’s appeal also has to do with our own hidden potential. Perhaps all those women with their children were thinking, look what Marion found when she went looking for her talent. Sure was worth the journey. I wonder what there might be inside me to be discovered?
That’s a question I sometimes ask about myself. And I urge my readers to think about it too!
--from WENT TO SEE THE GYPSY: AN AMAZING JOURNEY TO THE HEART OF ROCK AND ROLL by MarkFogarty,